THE GREATEST EMAIL YOU’LL EVER SEND.

I was recently on a plane. This isn’t unusual for me as I’m on a plane a few times a week. I proudly use “Road Warrior” as a description of myself because I’m in travel, so you can say I practice my trade all the time. Like most road warriors, I’m always surrounded by people, though amazingly, it’s still very easy to be lonely while traveling. Days, weeks, and months pass (airline miles and hotel points rack up) and time seems to disappear before your eyes. While I consider myself pretty good about keeping in touch with people (via phone, social media, etc.) I started to think about all the things I’d want people to know in the event, well, that I wasn’t around anymore. I know, it’s a bit morbid so hear me out. In the event you weren’t here on this earth tomorrow, what would you want the important people in your life to know? So, I started to type an email. I imagined not being able to ever speak to anyone ever again. I typed and poured my heart out and I kept typing. I’m not going to give you all the details, but the evolution of the email was pretty amazing and what I’m going to do with the email might interest you. I started with my wife. I reminded her about all the things I love and admire about her.  I reminisced about when we met, how I felt, etc. Mostly, I thanked her and told her how much I appreciated her because I don’t do that enough. I imagined we were having the last conversation we’d ever have, and these were my notes. I also reminded her of my washboard abs and long flowing hair, not because I actually have those, but because I wanted to be sure she’d smile. You can imagine, the words kept flowing from my brain onto the screen. Then I wrote to my children. Both were under ten years of age, I needed to keep it relevant to their lives now. I wrote about how much I love them and how proud I am of them, especially how kind they are. Then I thought I should write things that would be pertinent to them as they grew up. Again, I told them how much I loved them, but now I added things like how they needed to cherish one another and yes, take care of Mommy. As I kept writing, I had to change my tone, giving advice on the things I likely to happen as they grew up; love, heartbreak, picking the right friends, the right job and making all sorts of decisions. Then I wrote to my parents. I told them about how much I loved them and I thanked them for everything they’ve ever done for me. I also apologized for nearly burning down the house when I was a kid, but that’s another post. Then I wrote to my sister and then to my extended family and then to my best friends. Then, I even wrote my last social media post entitled “If you’re reading this, it was nice knowing you.” When I thought I was done with the email, I re-read it and made changes. Turns out, this continued for many flights.  Honestly, I’m still not done, but I have to say, that writing this email has been an amazing experience. I have since taken the time to call people just to tell them I love them, to thank them, and basically tell them everything I wrote, using it as a script. So what am I going to do with this email (after a few more additions)? I’m going to send it to the people I love. Why wait? What is worth saying, is worth saying now. Breathe. Think. Type. You’ll enjoy this as will the people you love.

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The Best Greek Island Resorts and THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PRIVATE VILLAS AND RESORTS IN GREECE.

The CDC announcement that vaccinated people can travel is causing a stir, and this is great news. I’m hearing from all my friends in travel (agents, tour operators, hotels, cruises) there’s big activity push happening, and requests are coming in fairly quickly.  It feels like many people are starting to plan vacations to all sorts of destinations, near and far. My family and I have been very careful over the past year. For the most part, we’ve been home, with next to no socializing. This CDC announcement is exciting and we’re being cautiously optimistic that it’ll stick. As you know, Greece is my favorite place on the planet, and I’ve been lucky to have seen a lot of this world. Greece recently announced it will open May 14 to vaccinated travelers (or those who at least show a negative covid test no more than 3 days old prior to arrival). From what I’m reading and hearing, other popular destinations like Spain, Italy, and France will likely remain shut to American travelers through most of the summer. Of course, this might change, but I doubt it. Either way, Greece is poised to do well. Because of this news, my Greek hotelier, tour operator and cruise line friends are telling me it’s “all systems go” but their optimism, you can tell, is guarded. Given all this new information, I’ve been asked by quite a few people, about my thoughts on travel to Greece. I tell everyone the same thing; I hope to get there myself this summer but traveling anywhere is a personal decision. That said, I have some definite points of view on where to go in Greece, where to stay, and what to do. Sure, I customize my advice depending on who is traveling, when they’re traveling, plus their ages, and likes and dislikes. In general though, here are some thoughts. Every Greek island, of which there are roughly 6,000 (with only 227 inhabited ones), has its own personality; fun, busy, traditional, quiet. It might have black or red sand beaches, rocky beaches, or spectacular views. Likely, it is a combination of these. Either way, to visit Greece “properly” keep a few things in mind. Expertise: In general, tell anyone you’re going to Greece and they’ll have an opinion on which islands you should visit. This is either because they’ve been there, because they know someone who is Greek, or because they’ve watched Mama Mia a dozen times. They might have been there 20 years ago, but they’re at the ready with words of “wisdom.” So smile, say thank you, and ignore everything they just told you.  This holds true as well if the person with whom you just spoke IS Greek. Maybe even more so. You see, as Greeks, we are partial to the villages and islands from which our families came. Again, say “Efharisto” (thank you) and toss the suggestion you should visit their village on the Island of _____ (enter any Greek island here.) The truth is most of Greece is phenomenally beautiful. It just is. The views are spectacular, the food is fantastic, the people are friendly, and it is a very reasonably priced. But there are clearly ways to visit Greece in the right way. First, select the right island(s). Look, I know when you look at a map, they’re just centimeters apart, but that doesn’t mean two-night stays in a myriad of islands is the way to go. Quite the opposite. Forget the idea of island hopping. Not all islands have airports. Some require ferries or hydrofoils to visit, and this could take hours from one port to another. The absolute minimum time you should spend on any one island is 4 nights. Yes, four, dare I say a week. Greece is about relaxing and taking it all in, including afternoon siestas. It’s about walking through town, sipping a frappe (chilled frothy coffee), spending time at the beach and well, just being chill. It’s about watching the sunset and then eating an “early” dinner (at 10pm). So, relax. The number one mistake people make is ignoring this advice, then over-scheduling and regretting it the day they get there. The other mistake they make is listening to uninformed people about which islands to visit. Sure, Mykonos is known as a party island, but that doesn’t mean that’s how you have to experience it. I go there almost every year and while I *may* have enjoyed a few late-night libations and parties in the past, I now go with my wife and kids and we have a different experience; we hit the beaches during the day, have early dinners in town and head back to the hotel for the evening.  And sure, people say Santorini gets crowded, but this normally comes from people on over-packed cruise ships who ARE the crowds two days a week. For me, Santorini’s view is priceless. People gather on the cliffs and literally clap when the sun sets. But, there are places to stay where you avoid the crowds on the island, which makes it a wonderful experience. And I love smaller islands as well. Kalymnos is a favorite. It is VERY traditional and reminds me of the Greece I knew when I was a child. It has a myriad of beaches and wonderful, traditional tavernas and cafes where islanders spend their time. There’s also Antiparos, known for being the home of Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson. Quiet, quaint, picturesque – it’s beautiful. If you’d like, I’m happy to recommend some islands based on your travel style. As for where you should stay, I’ve certainly seen an increase in the amount of requests for private villas. Clearly, this is the way to go. It isn’t cheap though, but here’s the thing; if you go with another family and you get a private villa with 6 or more bedrooms, it’s more reasonable than doing it alone. I’m happy to connect you with my friends at one of the best villa rental

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WHAT’S HAPPENING ON LINKEDIN?

Is it me, or are some people abusing LinkedIn? First, there are the endless, veiled sales pitches. Thanks, but I don’t need web development. Or Covid advice. Or business insurance. Or dear Lord, any help from a combo life coach/resume writer/beekeeper who has all the answers to my problems? Look, I know you’re out to land some business. I respect that. However, messaging me saying we have mutual connections and you’re looking “simply to expend your network in tourism” (media, technology – whatever), and then I connect and immediately get the auto-send IM asking if I need business insurance, can’t really be your strategy. Is it? I mean, why not say you offer business insurance, and you’d simply like to connect and stay in touch for when I DO need business insurance? And by the way, if you’re pitching business LEADS, do you think I’d use someone who scams people into connecting on LinkedIn as a source for leads? Then, there are the “funny” posts. I know, we all need some levity in today’s world. I get it. But I don’t want it on LinkedIn. I’ll see you on Facebook or Instagram. Why on earth would you post a silly pet video on LinkedIn? If you’re on the board of an animal sanctuary, it’s okay, but just for fun? No. Note though, that motivational quotes and articles are okay as long as they’re work-related. Finally, political posts on LinkedIn are, in my opinion, professional suicide. I know, you’re passionate. But with the divisiveness we’re experiencing now in the country, why risk causing havoc in your professional life? Save that for the feud with your aunt on Facebook. I suppose you could argue that anything about covid, vaccines, etc. is “political” but I don’t believe it is. Health issues impact everyone unilaterally and this pandemic has impacted every single business, so I’m okay with covid posts. If you know me, you know I’m no stranger to differences of opinion and I’m certainly a fan of sarcasm. For heaven’s sake, I have a blog where I give mostly poor reviews to the equally poor pizza in Indiana (see www.thatpizzaguy.com) and document my quixotic quest to find a decent pizza around here. But keep the non-professional stuff OFF LinkedIn. It’s a great business platform, for all of us. Let’s keep it that way. If we’re not connected on LinkedIn or if you’re not following my blog, let’s fix that right now, unless you’re pitching sales leads. (Sorry, I had to.)

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